About The Flag Persona System
At The Flag Persona System, we believe healthy relationships start with clear eyes and strong boundaries. Our mission is simple: help you recognise the small and big toxic patterns, even the ones disguised as “caring”, so you can protect your peace and choose connections that truly support you.
Empowering Healthy Relationships with Insight
Founded by Becky, who spent 15 years in what she thought was a “good” relationship, only to uncover years of subtle control, manipulation, and self-doubt, The Flag Persona System was built from personal experience and 5+ years of research into relationship psychology.
We know that leaving unhealthy dynamics isn’t the end of the journey, spotting them earlier is what keeps you from repeating the same patterns. That’s why our tools are designed to:
Identify the red flags (even the tiny ones you might miss).
Support you in letting go of toxic people with clarity and confidence.
Show you how to recognise green flags so you can invest in safe, respectful, and lasting connections.
From our free quizzes to our in-depth Flag Persona Infobook, every resource is built to be practical, empowering, and easy to use, no fluff, no fear tactics.
You deserve relationships that feel safe, supportive, and genuinely good for your nervous system.